Tuesday 21 August 2012

How to respect your women

It is true that it's natural for a man to require a woman's companionship. But again, when the bounds of such companionship are not well set then doom is at hand. I recently witnessed the harassment of some young girls who met with guys they were friends with on the internet. It was a terrible situation. Although i got to see the ladies afterwards, it brings to mind how much moral decadence has befallen Nigerians. What can this be attributed to?
Our young men no longer have the guts to patiently woo a woman and our women no longer know what love really is. Social media has not been helpful in portraying what life ought to be. From my standpoint, we are facing a failed generation. One that has failed even before it started. our parents who were unable to keep up with the fast changing technological society had to spend more time away else technology takes away their jobs. This misplaced priority or rather this inability on their part to adapt to and devise means to ensure that the welfare and moral upbringing of their kids are not overthrown by the need to survive.
Guys feel that the only way to get at a girl to who they are immensely attracted to is through drugging them or forcing them into sex. My advice to the Nigerian youth is this: Fear God and keep His commandment.
It is the only known solution from time immemorial till date. This cannot continue. Women are not sex tools They are humans like us. We ought to treat them with respect because they play a very important role in our lives and in the lives of those coming after us. Ofttimes i have had cause to call my mum just to say thanks for everything. It breaks my heart to see the girls who are supposed to be great women tomorrow have their dreams dashed by one guy with an uncontrollable sexual desire or a shameful low self esteem. Ladies, try to dress more appropriately. Guys have an issue with what they see. Don't let the sexual desire of a lustful guy ruin a bright future u probably have. Enjoy!!

A recent challenge with web hosting on utiware.net

Recently, I have had reasons to lament and wail over the difficulty in deploying a Microsoft based web application. I had a contract for a web application which i eventually completed and uploaded to a windows hosting account. On viewing the site in a browser, "OOps! Http 500 Internal Server Error".
Yeah. that's right. An internal server error. I made sure i retried the application with the live sever connection strings so as to be sure the issue wasn't from there. Uh-oh. The site works well on my IIS. I sent a support ticked and it took approximately 24hrs to get a response. I was asked to change my connection string to some other one i was given. "BOOM!" same issue. I contacted them again and ever since they have refused to reply. I had to delete the site from their domain and re-uploaded. The issue persisted. "Internal server error". Whatever the case maybe, Utiware, truth is you guys have got a terrible customer care service and i'm grossly disappointed in your lack of technical ability. Having explained the likely cause of the issue to them, they have chosen not to respond. In my next life, remind me not to choose Utiware and to migrate my website from their servers.